tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post502866442031068413..comments2023-06-20T10:07:40.783-05:00Comments on Tell Me About It...: Thanks...friends.Nataliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01225456755011937217noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-23575539810932783052008-10-15T04:56:00.000-05:002008-10-15T04:56:00.000-05:00momo fali - maybe that's my problem. um...no...i ...momo fali - maybe that's my problem. um...no...i don't think so. if i don't ever stop then i will blame the hormones!<BR/><BR/>heyjoe - thanks. i appreciate your encouragement!<BR/><BR/>supersmartkooger - i know it doesn't make me a baby. i am just not used to crying everyday. it will pass. thanks for being a fan AND a friend!<BR/><BR/>mamadallama - maybe that's true. maybe the days of not crying are over. i can't imagine it though. maybe because right now the tears don't feel good. i tend to try to hide my emotions if i can. tears are a sure sign that something is up! no hiding! i guess i should get used to it!<BR/><BR/>~m - i agree that crying is a release. my problem is that once i start i have a hard time stopping! if i cry one day i will probably cry for 3. we are going on 28 days now. crazy!<BR/><BR/>joe - wow! i am glad to hear that. i have been writing my thoughts. so far i have saved them. one of these days i might delete them, but right now i can't. too much. thanks for sharing!<BR/><BR/>supersmartkooger - thanks!Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01225456755011937217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-22126034149580365182008-10-14T20:57:00.000-05:002008-10-14T20:57:00.000-05:00Woops, forgot my postly reference to the Bible! "T...Woops, forgot my postly reference to the Bible! "There is a time to mourn", or cry. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-11608304459017774432008-10-14T19:25:00.000-05:002008-10-14T19:25:00.000-05:00I never cry. Never... but a couple weeks ago, I di...I never cry. Never... but a couple weeks ago, I did. I felt like I just couldn't handle it anymore. I gave the baby to Sarah and went upstairs to "cry it out". God, it helped so much.<BR/><BR/>When you get like that, open up Word or get out a notebook and start writing your thoughts. You don't necessarily need to put them here if you're feeling shy about it. But, writing your thoughts and feelings down can be a great outlet and will help vent some of those feelings. When you're feeling good again, you can either delete (or burn) your writings, or save them for some later reading.Irrational Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04701066159275266042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-27655716619486402162008-10-13T19:44:00.000-05:002008-10-13T19:44:00.000-05:00I cry a lot. I hate that I do but I can't help it....I cry a lot. I hate that I do but I can't help it. I feel like such a wuss or worry that the other person (ok, my husband is usually the other person) will think I'm trying to manipulate him but there's really nothing I can do about it. And it is cathartic. Not that you feel better, per se, but I think it is definitely a release.<BR/>I think I cried for a month when we came back from Korea.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-90112356676257990652008-10-13T07:22:00.000-05:002008-10-13T07:22:00.000-05:00I laughed when I read your post! Sorry about that...I laughed when I read your post! Sorry about that! I'm not laughing AT you but because it sounds like we could be twins. If I didn't know my family history I would be wondering for sure. As to crying, that part of your post made me think. I remember a time in my life when I didn't cry every day, too. But I think the longer you live the more things there are to cry about. Sometimes it's because you're overwhelmed, sometimes it's something more. Sometimes it's personal and sometimes it's for someone else. I'm a very upbeat and optimistic person, but I really can't remember back to what it was like to have a day without tears. Seems like a paradox but I guess that's just my life. Good thing we have such perfect-for-us husbands. Mine is what keeps me sane, I think.Mamadallamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08265663963219694459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-60200942479113154732008-10-12T18:41:00.000-05:002008-10-12T18:41:00.000-05:00Crying doesn't make you a baby. Know that. There w...Crying doesn't make you a baby. Know that. There would be a lot of people considered newborns if it were so. :-) Looking forward to your posts- support can always be found with your fans and friends and family!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-42345020918116799672008-10-12T14:03:00.000-05:002008-10-12T14:03:00.000-05:00Great post Natalie. Writing honestly is very hard,...Great post Natalie. Writing honestly is very hard, which is why so many of us never do. You do, and for that you should be proud.HeyJoehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04882102269183779983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21957679.post-11303048910007330592008-10-12T12:02:00.000-05:002008-10-12T12:02:00.000-05:00I cry just about every day. My ob/gyn says it's h...I cry just about every day. My ob/gyn says it's hormonal...so I have that going for me.Momo Falihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09735425888226178189noreply@blogger.com